Nigerian singer, Temmie Ovwasa has narrated how she was allegedly sexually abused by her stepfather from age 11 to 17.
The singer disclosed that she has at all times wished to tell the story for a very long time, however has been ready for her mom to die because she did not need her to bear the disgrace.
In line with Temmie, her stepfather shared particulars of the abuses in a dairy which her mom discovered however still stayed in the marriage.
The singer who revealed that her mom is a Pastor, acknowledged that she loves her however additional disclosed that she can’t belief her. Temmie additionally mentioned she will not be at her mom’s funeral, including that she does not hate her as a result of the system offers women like her nothing.
Within the spirit of exposing my step father as a sexual predator, I need to state this very clear , I don’t imagine within the justice system so if you’ve harm me sexually, watch your backs,I’m not afraid of blood
I’ve at all times wished to tell this story but I’ve been ready for my Mom to die as a result of I didn’t need her to bear the disgrace of it but it’s 2022 angels, and within the spirit of releasing my new mission the place I discuss a few of my experiences, I’ll be sharing this to start off.
I used to be sexually abused by my step father from age 11 to 17, he groped me, and wrote about it in his dairy which my mom discovered, My first experience with being referred to as mentally unstable after sharing a narrative was with my mom (which is why you stupid web trolls don’t faze me)
After my Mom discovered she stated it was “just anal”, according to his dairy, That means that it wasn’t such an enormous deal since I wasn’t “penetrated”, I do know by way of and thru what a predator appears like, thinks like, I do know they never imagine they’ve carried out something unsuitable
This began a cycle in my life, of individuals calling me mentally unstable, mad, depressed as a result of I used to be really, I lower myself for years, in and out of psychosis and you realize the most effective half, Everytime I had an opinion about what her husband did, My mom would say it’s psychosis
No I’m only telling this story as a result of I’m genuinely in a greater place and I don’t need your assist or pity, a variety of you fuckers are simply as responsible, My mom is a pastor and she believes deep in her heart, she’s a very good person, I love her to bits
However I don’t belief the woman that birthed me, She has stayed along with her husband even despite the fact that I’ve not returned residence for almost 10years, Oluwa Yemisi, I like you, however your other children will bury you, I can’t be at your funeral.
And the rationale I dont essentially hate her is, I know the system provides ladies like her nothing, she is nothing with out her husband , I see ladies like her everyday, risking their peace for no good males, however A baby is too huge a worth to pay for a person who isn’t shit.
Anyhow, I’ve at all times wished to get this off my chest, He isn’t the one one who has carried out shit like this to me, however the one one I still must interact with and I refuse to let that proceed. Anyone who has handled mental well being points is aware of that Nigerians are evil
I’ve been in so many situations with individuals utilizing my mental well being as an excuse to harm me, at my lowest and most psychotic I’ve seen individuals deal with me like shit, which is why i carry myself like God, I’ve really been to hell and again.
She requested me why I by no means confronted him if I wasn’t lying, so I did simply that final yr, did she imagine me? Nooo Yoruba ladies can die for man biko
